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If every time you bring up concerns that you have to your husband/ spouse and all you end up with is in an argument it can get very frustrating, and it can turn you off from bringing any further concerns you have in the future because you don’t want to have arguments all the time.
Living in such a marriage can make you feel like you don’t have the freedom to be who you are.
Such a marriage can make you feel like you’re being controlled and that you don’t have a say in this marriage, and such marriage situations can make you feel like your concerns don’t matter; you end up thinking that if you speak up, you’ll end up in a fight.
You want to have a marriage where when you can air your concerns, no matter how small they are. You want your husband to note them and not undermine or invalidate how you feel.
You want a safe space where you can highlight your problems without ending up feeling gaslighted.
You deserve to have a marriage full of peace, not a marriage where you have to be silent and hide your feelings because if you speak, then all hell might break loose.
Now listen, I’m not here to tell you that the only way to achieve this is by leaving your current spouse and finding another one.
Instead, I’m here to tell you that you can turn your marriage into a healthy one where you speak to your husband and he listens and doesn’t gaslight your concerns.
It’s possible to create a marriage where when you have concerns or problems, you don’t end up in arguments.
You have the power and the capability. All that’s left is the guidance on how to implement your power into creating that marriage.