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Here are 5 questions to ask yourself if you feel unhappy in your marriage.
- Why do I feel unhappy?
List all the things that you think are making you feel unhappy in your marriage. Check what’s in common, is it mostly what your husband did or what he forgot to do?
- Have I done everything I can to make it work? or is my ego too high?
Sometimes your ego won’t even let you go deep enough to find solutions that’ll help make your marriage work.
Your ego will sneak up on you and whisper “why should I be the one bothering to make this marriage work while he(husband) doesn’t seem bothered?”
That’s ego, be aware, notice it, then decide whether either to listen to it or to make a move.
- What if I can’t change my partner? Or what if he can’t change? Can I still love him for who he is?
- How long am I willing to wait for things to be different? If there’s a way you can save this marriage, are you willing to go in and save it or will you just wait and see if he’ll change on his own so you can be happy?
- Or are you just waiting for him to accept that both of you need to go to couples therapy? Sometimes, people choose to wait years for their partner to move toward them.
If you want help with your marriage, I invite you to schedule a zoom call with me now and let’s talk about what’s happening in your marriage & how coaching can help you make it thrive. Click the link in the bio.
If you want help with your marriage, I invite you to schedule a zoom call with me now and let’s talk about what’s happening in your marriage & how coaching can help you make it thrive.
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